School is back; adequate sleep and healthy eating are critical

School is beginning and now is the time to adjust our children’s schedule to ensure the greatest success and academic performance.  A school day is filled with many activities both physical and mental; for students to be successful, they need to be alert and well rested.

Get adequate sleep During the summer most children have flexible schedules including late nights and do not have a regular bedtime schedule.  It is normally possible to sleep extra, should they have one or two especially late nights.  Once school starts, students need a fixed schedule at home to complement the one at school.  The bus arrives to pick up students early in the morning and brings them home late in the afternoon.

Ensure that students get on a regular schedule to provide at least 9 hours of sleep per night.  It is no longer possible to have a nap during the day.  Therefore, the child needs to get sufficient sleep to keep them alert and perform at a highly effective level during school hours.

Eat healthy Just as sleep is important for successful learning, a good diet and eating healthy is paramount.  Plan to have the evening meal at a specific time, which allows students time to complete their homework, do their evening chores and get to bed at a specific hours depending on their age. Be sure to have a balanced diet and healthy meals with adequate amounts of fruits and vegetable.  Avoid eating savory snack foods immediately before bed.

Learning and being alert go together

Adequate sleep and healthy eating are the cornerstones to being alert and active for their school day.  Give your child the best chance in school and be sure that he or she gets sufficient sleep and eats well.  It will make a difference!

Summer – Learning or Losing Academic Skills

All young people experience learning loss when they do not engage in educational activities during the summer.  On average, children’s test scores are at least one month lower when they return to school in the fall than when they left in the spring.  Summer Learning Loss is more pronounced in math. According to Cooper et al., research findings have shown that students lose approximately 2.6 months of grade level equivalency in math computation skills over the summer months.

It adds up

Think about the learning loss over the 12 or 13 years that your child is in school.  During this time, the effect of summer breaks on a student can mean learning loss of up to 3 years of academic learning, especially in mathematics.  It is equivalent to 25% of the time in school.

Summer is the great equalizer

Most children think of the summer as a time away from school and a time to relax. Parents should consider how they can engage their child in mind exercises to avoid these devastating academic losses.  As an adult, I know how fast that I lose my
excel skills when I do not make a complex excel spreadsheet for 6 months.  Simply, I need to train myself again for the task.

Stay fit and stay mentally active

Consider ways to keep your child active both physically and mentally.  It is great to participate in day camps and athletic camps to remove summertime boredom and enhance athletic ability, but don’t forget the mind.  It needs daily exercise to stay in shape!   Develop interesting exercises and activities to learn mathematics, science, reading and geography this summer.  Consider a summer tutoring program!

The Learning Staircase

The Learning Staircase

Imagine that learning is like a giant staircase and each step represents a certain skill a child must learn to move forward.

Moving right along. If a child masters the skill, they proceed up the learning staircase without any difficulties. Leaning is easy, fun, and enjoyable.

The staircase becomes impossible to climb. If a child misses a few steps along the way, they may be able to make it up the staircase successfully. If a child misses several steps in a row followed by a few more steps, it becomes impossible to climb that staircase. The child has missed far too many steps and feels completely defeated, left behind, and often alone.

Take a step back when the staircase becomes impossible to climb. As parents, we want to help our children succeed. The first thing you can do is remove the pressure off of your child by taking a few steps back. Take them back to a time when a particular skill was easy. Let them have opportunities for success and help rebuild their confidence level. Let them know you are there for them and that you understand what they are going through.

Don’t be afraid to ask for extra help. Somewhere along the climb, your child had difficulty mastering some skills. It is critical to locate those skills in order for them to move forward with confidence. Don’t be afraid to use all your available resources. Talk to your child and their teachers to gather as much information as possible. Find a tutor or a professional tutor company. They are trained in dealing with these areas of difficulty. The time you invest now will help your child succeed in the future and help them become confident and successful learners.

Provide your Child with Guidance and Support

Homework is the extra activity to confirm the understanding of a concept or the preparation for the next day’s discussion.  It is vital to do it and understand what is happening.

Provide guidance to your son or daughter. This does not mean to do the assignments.  A teaching moment can make all the difference.  Just do the first problem together.  When your child understands the concept, you will see his or her eyes light up.  Now is the time to go solo and allow him or her to demonstrate the level of understanding.

Encouragement is the greatest motivator. Now it is time to check on the progress.  Be very patient; it is so important.  Make sure that he or she knows that is alright to ask for assistance.  If necessary review the concept again, with the idea that he or she will continue to work independently, once the review is completed.  Remember, it is not just about getting the home done, it is about retaining the concept.

Don’t forget a tablespoon of praise will get a ton of effort in the future!

Overcoming shyness – Simple Steps

Shyness is a learned trait or behavior, but parents can change the way their child interacts with others.  Since a child models adult behavior, your actions will make the difference.  Most often, a shy child will have at least one parent who is shy.

Demonstrate non-shy behavior. Take your child to the park and look for a parent with another child of the same age.  Approach the parent(s) and introduce yourself and then after a few sentences, introduce yourself to their child and introduce your child.  Stimulate some communication between the two children.  It will feel awkward the first time because you, as a parent may experience the same difficulties.  Each time you go to the park, follow this process.  You will be modeling confidence and friendly behavior.  Of course, you must not forget about child proofing your child.

Create situations for your child to communicate. When you go to the library, ask your child to pick out some books and then ask your child to present the library card and books to the cashier.  Anytime you go to a restaurant, have your child check the menu and communicate what he or she wants to eat to the waiter.  Prompt them as necessary.  Join a Tae Kwon Do group, since this part of this activity is about building confidence.  Foster situations for your child that create interaction and communication.

Never say your child is shy. Your child may view this comment as a fault, since a young child does not understand the meaning of shy.  Being a quiet thinker can be great; however, it can be an issue when combined with lacking confidence.

Once you observe this trait, quietly take steps together to overcome this learned behavior.  You may even help yourself overcome some social awkwardness.

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Attitude and homework

Who wants to sit every night doing homework?  I was young once and remember that it was a boring. You can demand that your child do it, but the learning effectiveness. Have a chat with your son or daughter, so that they get on the same page.

It’s all about success!

Different goals create a challenge. For you, your child is successful, if he or she attends an elite college, gets a challenging and rewarding job, earns a good salary and has a loving family. Your child may see success very differently. For him it is all about playing football or baseball and becoming a professional athlete. That is his idea of success.

Let’s combine your goals with the goals your child. For your son to become a professional athlete, he will need to go to top name college. Without good grades throughout school, the dream of being a professional athlete cannot be realized. He will always tell you how much he wants to be a professional athlete, and is the moment you remind him that without doing those assignments each day, it will not happen.

When your son sees homework as a means to an end, it will be easier. He will be more willing to do the work and will learn much more.  It will make a difference.

Homework basics important for academic success

Structure is Important – Research shows that a highly structured approach to homework helps children achieve superior performance in school and provides excellent academic benefits through academic life.

Creation of Good Study Habits – Human beings are very much creatures of habit. Developing good
study habits will make those college years much easier. A child may not have homework every night in elementary school, but establishing study time every night is important in the long run.

Set expectations for homework – Expect to hear a summary of what was learned during the study
time.  Ask some questions and see it they understood what they did.

Parent involvement is key – For children to realize their maximum potential, parental involvement is
paramount. Soon your child will realize how much you care and this will become a guiding principal for him/her.